What Would I Tell My High School Self About Prematurity?

I’ve been asked to give two seminars for 60 high-school students at the end of the month. Many of the kids who have signed up for the seminars are on a career track to become nurses, doctors, respiratory therapists, occupational therapists, and physical therapists. It’s an honor to have the opportunity to share how people in these careers literally saved Jaxson’s life.

Anyone who has spent considerable time in the hospital can attest to the fact that many health care workers, unfortunately, forget how their everyday duties, actions, and words can directly impact a family’s life. (And of course, there are also many health care workers that set the bar very high for others practicing family-centered care.)

It is my hope that our story can have a lasting impact on these kids. I hope that hearing first-hand what it was like for a “real” family helps them become excellent health care workers. People who are willing to listen, and then read between the lines. People who can balance their duties with compassion and respect for the family; and who are aware of their body language as well as their words. People who are able to show empathy and give support to a family in need. People a family can trust with the life of their child.

I’m working hard to find ways to relate our experience to high-school life. I’m planning to show tons of pictures and videos. I’m also planning to visually represent Jax’s weight when he was born by holding 2 cans of pop – 24 ounces – in my hand. Then, I’ll show 10 cans – 120 ounces – to represent the average weight of a full-term baby! Can you think of other ideas or examples that would help “drive home” the prematurity / NICU experience for a high-schooler?

This will be a perfect opportunity to raise awareness about prematurity. I’ve asked some of the fellow preemie parents to share with me what they would tell their high-school selves about prematurity. Here’s what they said:

  • Life isn’t fair. Bad things happen to good people.
  • Not everyone has a healthy pregnancy or a healthy baby.
  • A preemie is not just “a small baby.”
  • Preemies require a lot of extra care. Many will have delays that require hundreds of hours of therapy.
  • There are hidden problems that preemie parents deal with every day. For example, trouble gaining weight, feeding tubes, insurance calls, isolation restrictions.
  • Teen moms are one of the highest at-risk groups for premature birth.
  • Prematurity is a very isolating experience.
  • The road doesn’t end when you leave the NICU.
  • Trust your instincts when it comes to your body.
  • You are SO much stronger than you know or will ever give yourself credit for.

What would you add?

What Would I Tell My High School Self About Prematurity?

 

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Author: Andrea M

Oh man, what an adventure! I went into labor unexpectedly when I was 23w3d pregnant. Jaxson was born weighing 1 lb 8 oz. A tiny little peanut, but boy was he feisty. He still is! We love it now, but we probably won't when he is a teenager. I write about our journey and all other things that come with it, including a brain tumor. We look forward to "meeting" you - come hang out with us...we're pretty cool.

6 thoughts on “What Would I Tell My High School Self About Prematurity?”

  1. I agree with the remember every body doesn’t fit into one box or one outcome. (we were told Christian would NEVER be “normal” or be able to be in activities). I remind myself of this everyday at work when I am working with patients.

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    1. Yes – it’s hard to remember sometimes, even thought we’ve been there! Your experiences with Christian probably make you an even better nurse, don’t you think? 🙂

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  2. For those going into the medical field, I hope they won’t rely too heavily on statistics. Preemies defy odds every day and deserve to have doctors/nurses/therapists who believe in them, even when the stats aren’t in their favor. Be open to the miracles that can happen when these tiny fighters are given a chance.

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  3. What a great idea!!! And it sounds like you actually have a pretty comprehensive list there. I hope you will post about this after the fact and let us know how it went!!

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