October Anniversaries

This is always an emotional month for our family.mother son dance

It was nine years ago in October that we found out my mom had Stage IV breast cancer. Three days later, my brother got married. Only our immediate family knew about mom’s cancer and it was hard to put on a happy face with that news lurking in our hearts.

When my brother danced with mom for the mother/son dance, tears streamed down everyone’s cheeks, but for those of us who knew that mom had limited time left, the tears stung a little harder.

Four years ago today, I dipped my father-in-law’s drink sponge in a can of Michelob Golden Draft and dabbed it on his lips. Mike was dying of cancer and I wanted to give him something he enjoyed before he left this earth. He smacked his lips and tried to make a sound. I took that as a “thank you.” Later that evening, Mike died surrounded by family and friends.

Fall and hunting season was always Mike’s favorite. I have to believe that he died in the fall so the happy memories of this time of year would help us through our sadness.

deer hunting

Three years ago today, Jaxson came home after living for 93 days in the NICU. It was a month before his due date. Doctors were surprised he was ready to come home so soon. Most preemies stay in the hospital at least until their due date. It was practically unheard of for a 23 weeker to come home before the due date.

There was only one explanation: Jax had Guardian Angels looking out for him.

going home

walking out of the NICU for the first time

Author: Andrea M

Oh man, what an adventure! I went into labor unexpectedly when I was 23w3d pregnant. Jaxson was born weighing 1 lb 8 oz. A tiny little peanut, but boy was he feisty. He still is! We love it now, but we probably won't when he is a teenager. I write about our journey and all other things that come with it, including a brain tumor. We look forward to "meeting" you - come hang out with us...we're pretty cool.

2 thoughts on “October Anniversaries”

  1. Wow! Thank you for sharing your life with us! I feel blessed to know you and with this site to know your family! May you have a Blessed Day! Love Always, Teresa

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