A Sensory Friendly Day Out with Thomas the Train

Jax loves trains. Maybe that’s an understatement. We have about 100 train engines/cars and four distinctly different tracks that we play with almost every day.

It’s fun! I love to build the tracks while Jax tells me I’m doing it wrong 😉 and Jax loves to pull his “Orangy Train” around the track. He likes to be in charge of the coaches, so he hardly ever presses the button to make the battery-operated train run on its own.

When I learned about the Day Out With Thomas Friendship Tour, I jumped on it. An actual RIDE on a real train?! I couldn’t think of a better special surprise for my boy.

My heart sunk when I checked the website. 10,000 people?! Overhead music. Lots of lines. Whistles and horns. This was not an environment that Jax would enjoy. I knew it would be waaay to much sensory input and I knew we wouldn’t last more than 5 minutes.

I was disappointed because it was another reminder that we have to do things differently around here. We can’t do the things that typical families get to do.

I was glad I didn’t mention it to Jax.

But, later that week a mom in an ASD support group that I belong to posted a petition to the city to add an additional sensory-friendly day to the schedule.

Maybe this would work after all!

Thanks to the hard work of moms and advocates, they added a day especially for kids with Autism!

We bought our tickets immediately.

The day included all the activities typically offered, but they limited the number of tickets sold (no lines!), they turned off the overhead music and narration, they limited the whistles and extra sounds.

In other words, they turned an otherwise inaccessible event into one that Jax could enjoy.

The best part for me was that we could do our thing – including flapping, screeching, humming, and running – in a totally safe environment free of judgement and stares.

We NEVER would have been able to attend if it hadn’t been for the accommodations and changes they made.

We are so thankful to the mom who worked to make it happen, the City of Duluth, the organizers of the Day Out With Thomas the Train, and all of the staff that volunteered their time to make our ASD kids feel welcome and included.

All aboard!!

Author: Andrea M

Oh man, what an adventure! I went into labor unexpectedly when I was 23w3d pregnant. Jaxson was born weighing 1 lb 8 oz. A tiny little peanut, but boy was he feisty. He still is! We love it now, but we probably won't when he is a teenager. I write about our journey and all other things that come with it, including a brain tumor. We look forward to "meeting" you - come hang out with us...we're pretty cool.

5 thoughts on “A Sensory Friendly Day Out with Thomas the Train”

  1. Andrea and Jax,

    I remember all the special train days for Autism Weeks in the 1990s.

    And the Day Out with Thomas didn’t really grow until the early 2000s.

    So happy you were all able to enjoy this one.

    Thank you to the City of Duluth!


  2. Oh’ so glad that you guys were All able to enjoy a wonder day together! May there be many more days filled with Joy 🙂


  3. Now that’s what I like to hear. Thank God people realize the importance of aligning events, toys, etc. to meet special needs.


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